Relationships and Marriage

Ignorance is Bliss – BDSM


It pisses me off when people don’t go through the trouble of researching the subject, reading the books or just watching the movie.

You can't argue with ignorant and uneducated people.
You can’t argue with ignorant and uneducated people, but I will….

BDSM is not domestic abuse.

Anyone who understands more on the subject will tell you that it’s a consensual act between the Dominant and the Submissive. That’s why people are very open about their needs and wants in a BDSM relationship. You need to be honest with your partner about what you’re willing to do and what’s off the menu. Trust plays a huge role in these types of relationships. That’s why a contract {yes, this is real} is set up between the partners to come to an agreement on what is acceptable and what is forbidden to protect both parties. There are actual discussions and disagreements that take place for any issues to be resolved before stepping into such a relationship.

Consensual means you give your permission. Since both parties enjoy the act enough to participate in it, how is that considered abusive? Have these critics even gone as far as researching the difference between abuse and consensual acts of pleasure? Yes, there might be a thin line separating the two subjects from each other, but clearly ignorance goes a long way.

Is there anything consensual with abuse? Uh, I think not. No one willingly allows another to beat them and walks away in acceptance.

Come on, people, let logic flow through you a little.

Before you get to an opinion, make sure you have done your research and deliver a valid argument.

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